Here’s what almost no one says out loud — but every woman has felt:
There’s a shift that happens with a man
long before anything actually changes between you.
Not dramatic.
Not romantic.
Not even visible.
Just that moment when his energy
starts responding to something in you
that you didn’t try to create.
It’s quiet —
almost unsettling —
because it has nothing to do with what you said
or what you did
or how available you were.
It’s deeper.
Older.
Like he’s picking up on a signal
you didn’t realize you were sending.
Not control.
Not strategy.
Not manipulation.
Just that subtle pull
where you feel him tuning back into you
without knowing why.
And once you notice it…
you can’t un-notice it.




