When it comes to using the Law of Attraction as an effective tool, one of the most important things is to believe that you can achieve what you want in life. It doesn’t matter what you’re searching for – an ideal partner, a great job, or a fit body – you can achieve them.
You can’t get what you deserve by harboring doubts or negative ideas. These five steps will help you cultivate a new mindset if you find it hard to believe in what you want.
Ask, Believe, Receive! How To Receive The Life You Want In 5 Steps
1. Get Rid Of Negative Thoughts
When you feel down or worry that you’ll never achieve your goals, reject that thought and replace it with an analogous positive thought.
Each time you notice that you are feeling down or worried that you won’t achieve your goals, reject that thought and replace it with a more positive one.
You can tell yourself, for example, that you are well on your way to finding the love of your life, that you are confident of your ability to achieve your career goals, or that you will be happy again after your divorce. Whether you believe these thoughts or not isn’t important right now, as long as you are saying or thinking them clearly.
You will gradually become accustomed to replacing negative thoughts with positive ones, and you may begin to believe these new thoughts.
(These 7 tips will help you keep a positive attitude no matter what!)
2. Act Like You Have What You Want
When you live as if you already have that ideal partner, dream job, or overflowing bank account, you will be more likely to manifest your dreams.
Although you might feel a little awkward or self-conscious at first, this exercise will start to feel powerful if you do things like browse online for things you’ll be able to afford when you’re more prosperous, or buy a card for your future spouse.
There is a concept sometimes known as “living in the knowingness” that can help to make you a more dynamic, magnetic person as it is infused with positive thinking.
3. Look at Success Stories
The Law of Attraction has been used by thousands of people all over the world to transform their lives.
Reading these stories will make you realize that learning the Law of Attraction really can make a huge difference to your happiness and fulfillment, helping you to get rid of any doubts you might have about it.
You can start by listening to my success story here. Learn how I discovered the most powerful form of manifesting energy ever created!
4. Speak and Write Affirmations
You might already know that affirmations are a key part of using the Law of Attraction, however, you may not have realized that they can be used to strengthen your belief in what you want to manifest.
While you look in the mirror, you might say “I know my soul mate is out there looking for me,” or “Everything I did today is leading me to a better life.” before you go to sleep.
Writing affirmations again and again can make them even more effective, as can placing them on large pieces of paper that can be seen in the morning as you get ready.
Messages that connect you to the truth of your future happiness can be a powerful way of increasing Law of Attraction’s pull.
5. Pump Up Your Confidence
Lack of self-esteem is often at the root of difficulties believing in what you want to attract. It can be difficult to feel good about yourself when you have endured life challenges and painful memories from your early years. However, a positive perspective on your own worth is necessary to benefit from the Law of Attraction.
The first step in overcoming confidence issues is to identify the underlying assumptions.
If, for example, you were bullied in high school for your looks, you can counteract this by focusing on the many occasions when you have been complimented or asked on dates as an adult.
Second step, nurture the aspects of yourself that you are most proud of.
Whatever your strengths are, hone them and make them an integral part of your daily life.
As your confidence grows in response to consistently positive results, it will be easier for you to believe that you really deserve the things you’re attempting to obtain with the Law of Attraction.
Ok but.. where do I start from?
There’s a wonderful video tutorial I always recommend to watch. There is no need to buy the course presented at the end (even though it is considered to be one of the most solid systems available). All I want to provide you with here is a clear picture of how the Law of Attraction really works, beyond what most gurus omit to explain. Click below to watch the video:
